I have news… I have a new book out called Piper’s Plan and I have reading recommendations below but first, lets talk about relationships.
Relationships are hard work. I know, not news to anyone who had tried to keep the romance in the relationship but in a D/s relationship, while the romance books will tell you there is a bump in the road and then the Dom takes over and life is good, that is far from the truth.
I have just celebrated my 39th anniversary so I know a few things. We were young when we married. We were rather mature for our ages and that had helped tremendously, my husband having very particular expectations for his life and ours together. I am headstrong and he is quietly insistent.
We didn’t fight for the first two years and we don’t now, but there was a few years that I had to learn to take his lead and he learned to give on somethings, very much like my O’Connor and Chase Abbey Series, experience talks. We had children. We adopted more.
He has learned to give me my space and I have learned to follow his lead. Did it happen overnight? Hell, no! Does he still take a deep breath and smack my butt on occasion for more than sex? Do I still roll my eyes? Yes, and we wouldn’t have it any other way.
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2 thoughts on “Relationships are hard work”
Thanks so much for the insight you’ve shared, Alyssa! My sweet hubby and I have been married (47 years in a few weeks) and we have found it to be the same with us! And thanks too, for your ‘Reading Recommendations!’ ~Pippa
Well said! I have been married for nearly 30 years myself and couldn’t agree more!
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